Batting A Thousand

           I cannot believe I’ve never written here about bats. 

          When we lived in Iowa, our house was more than 100 years old, and bats would hibernate in the walls during winter. In the Spring we’d hear scritching sounds, and the next thing you knew, they had found a vent and were swooping through the house.  Okay, two rooms.

          Unfortunately, one of those rooms was my bedroom. St. Bob would get home from work late at night, and would only devote about 20 minutes to this major catastrophe, then would hop in bed and go to sleep. 

          This left me to lie in bed, furious, and pulling the blankets up to my eyes, which darted back and forth as I tried to follow the path of these bloodthirsty terrorists.

        By the way, fun fact, if you are in the Emergency Room and have even been IN A ROOM with a bat, you have to be tested for Rabies because there are bats that can bite you and you can't feel it, nor does it leave a mark!

          You’re not supposed to kill them, but everyone we knew had a tennis racket under the bed. And allegedly they have echo-location that should guide them out of an open window, but this doesn’t work, either.

          Finally our bedroom bat hid behind a curtain and Bob scooted him out the window in the morning. I don’t think I slept a wink. I heard of an event at the Nature Center, about bat information. I signed up with all the kids, hoping to overcome my fear of these hideous creatures. But what was the first slide they showed?  A giant bat, snarling at the camera with a bear trap set of teeth in his mouth! This did NOTHING to abate my fear.

          So, wouldn’t you know, that when this goodie appeared in the local paper, St. Bob (Saint- ha!) had to save it for me, with key parts underlined: Bat Talk and Tour, fun-filled event, and opportunities to meet bats up close.

 

And no, I did not sign up.

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Soaked 'til I Nearly Croaked

           Folks, I nearly melted yesterday. First, I was wearing an oil-based lotion. Then I STUPIDLY decided this would be a good day to try on bras. That’s right, bras.

          First, I went to Nordstrom’s. I walked in and saw the cutest pair of  Max Mara striped pants. They looked perfect for this hot weather. I turned over the price tag. $1,135.00.  Yep, over a thousand dollars. I stopped. Had I suddenly stepped through a time warp to the future, when pants cost more than my first car?

          I looked at the bras. They were also several times as expensive as I was willing to go. Got back in my car and drove around the mall to the other side where I entered J.C. Penneys.

          A huge bra department, but right through it—RIGHT IN THE MIDDLE—a ten-foot wide pathway to the returns and purchases counter! This means that I am scrounging for the right size bra while a crowd of beer-bellied, unshaven men are watching me as they stand in line to return a pair of jeans. PLEASE!  Did they have to put the bra department right here?

          I grabbed an armful, went into the dressing room, and began the excruciating process of trying on bras that are too tight, too pinchy, too big, too everything. Few things in this world will make you sweatier than this endeavor, especially if there is not one employee to help.

          Finally, DRIPPING WET, I took the one bra I found that fit, and stood in line for purchasing. At the counter I asked the cashier if she possibly had any Kleenex back there, and she got me two. I mopped my face, the back of my neck, basically every surface I could.

          I wiped my eyes and realized my eyelashes had peeled off from the heat and moisture. I made a beeline for my car, and a nice postal worker opened the door for this soaking wet rhinoceros. “Thank you so much,” I said. “I’m so sorry you have to work outside in this heat.” (It was 104 degrees).

          The cheery guy just shrugged and said, “Oh, it’s okay-- I hum Christmas songs.” I could have thrown my arms around him (but he would’ve gagged).

          And I decided to share this brilliant tip with all of you, so you can pretend it’s cold out, even when people are baking cookies on their car hoods, so that you can survive the scorching weather.

          I should have hummed “White Christmas” while I was trying on those bras.

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TANgo

           Okay, this is not about the Tango. This is about how I cannot seem to tan on my legs, despite spending hours outside, gardening.

          And I think I’ve finally figured it out. It’s because I’m not lying down, trying to get a tan, but up and about. 

          Here’s my science: The sun is overhead, right? So it tans my feet, with lovely flip flop stripes.

         It’s also happy to hit the point of my nose, which caused me to get MOHS skin cancer surgery there, a few years ago (just like Hugh Jackman).

          But the sun can’t hit my legs, unless it’s in a car, driving by.

          I think people who swim and surf are taking unfair advantage of the water reflections. There, I’ve said it.

          So next time you see someone with pale legs, just smile and say, “I’ll bet your garden looks great.”

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SNAP! CRACKLE! POP! - No, it's not cereal

           Just today, St. Bob finally tells me that my enjoyment of Spike Jones was one of the things that attracted him to me.

          Seriously?  He was looking for someone who appreciated craziness? Well, apparently so.

          A high school friend introduced me to the comedy music of Spike Jones, but most people today have never heard his clever spoofs. I guess he was the Weird Al of the 1940s.  He was actually a very talented musician, but loved to include sound effects, such as gunshots, cowbells, whistles, hiccups, animal sounds and more, along with comedic vocals in his band’s tunes.

          He actually didn’t think it would catch on, but people loved his wild arrangements and he became a huge success on radio, TV, and in movies.

          I guess it’s no surprise that St. Bob, who began his own television career in junior high, as a clown who introduced cartoons on TV, would feel a kindred spirit with someone else who liked to make people laugh.

          Now I’m waiting for St. Bob to tell me another thing he liked about me was my ADHD, my klutziness, and my impatience. But I might have to settle for just the Spike Jones thing.

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The Cat's Out of the Bag

           Some would say I have a problem (no, not whatever problem you just thought of). It’s that five various neighbor cats keep coming over and meowing to get inside and I let them in, and now my life is about watching for those cats.

          Okay, the last part of that is the problem. Our final pets passed away and I can’t endure another loss like that, so we have no new ones. However, I love to pet them and snuggle cats and dogs, so when I see a stray cat, I meow and wiggle my fingers so they’ll come over for a cheek scratch. And, I let them in.

          Word has evidently gotten out along the feline phone line, because now there are five who frequent my back yard. And it’s not to see the fairy garden.

Granted, we have tons of birds because I love gardening and we have trees where they like to sing. So maybe that’s why the cats are coming over. OR… they used to play with our cat, Simon, and they’re still looking for him.

           I let them in, and they act like house inspectors. Up the stairs, behind the curtains, under the sofas—they look everywhere (for Simon?)

I don’t feed them because I don’t want to steal someone else’s cat, but they still act like they have two homes now. I think they’d give me a five-star rating on Yelp. Or Meowlp.

           So… if you own one of these cats, let me know!

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Pick a Car, Any Car

           I was sitting in traffic the other day, and thought about how each driver had chosen whatever they’re driving, probably came proudly home with it, maybe even called their friends to say they just bought a Nissan/Mustang/Range Rover/Audi/Chevy--  whatever.

          They liked the color, the seats, the options. And now here we are, expressing our preferences in a giant sea of choice.  It’s the same with shoes, haircuts, and food we order off a menu. I’ve always liked this freedom to choose and would dread living in a world where we were told THIS is your car

          And THESE are your shoes

          And THIS is what you have to eat.

          I know there are people in other countries without such freedoms, and I wish I could bring them here, take them to the salad dressing aisle at the grocery store, and say, “Pick whichever one you want.” Then do it with shoes, cars, and haircuts.

          Just saying. Freedom is pretty cool.

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Northern Lite

           I have always wanted to see the Northern Lights. I’ve been to Norway, Sweden, Finland, and Denmark, even traveled above the Arctic Circle. I’ve taken an Alaskan cruise. But do you think I’ve ever even glimpsed this marvel?

          No way.  Not only that, but I’m suddenly seeing posts by people in nearly every state in the Union—including California, where I live—but not once have I been able to catch a peek at this glorious display.

          I got poor St. Bob up at one in the morning one time, and made him drive all over Placer County, after hearing there would be a sighting.

          This is like searching for Big Foot, or the Loch Ness Monster, you know. I’m beginning to wonder if everyone is sharing AI pictures, and then snickering.

          There are several other space phenomena I’ve been hoping to spot-- A sun halo:

          A moonbow:

          Shooting stars (not the occasional one, but ones like this):

          And here I am, someone who is actually interested in astronomy! You’d think all these magnets and Alfvén waves and electrons would get their act together and offer a show for all of us. I’d even settle for a not-very-super nova.

          One time I took my eldest son to the Griffith Park Observatory to see Halley’s Comet, which circles around every 75 years or so. He was only two, though, and bumped the telescope, thus eliciting groans from everyone else in line while the scientists aligned it again. But at least he will live long enough to say he saw it twice, which was the whole point.

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